Now available on my Etsy shop: this FINE eco-friendly soy candle, shipped directly to you or your friend. For all those times you said “I’m fine” but were actually irritable, neurotic, exhausted, or a charming mix of all three.

Smoke signal your roommate. Validate the heck out of yourself. Light up the dark. As the flame burns revel in the sweet smell of acceptance. Available in 6 scents or unscented (for us extra-sensitive types). Buy or gift here.